Tuesday 29 September 2015

The Secrets and Secrets...part 1

As the name was meant to suggest, part of this blog was meant to touch on the things I have found while doing my extensive family research.  The time has come to share some of the secrets I have found.  Some stories get passed through the generations - some do not - and some become legend or rumor.  In my research I have proved rumors and furthered some into further mystery but I have also uncovered secrets. Unknown secrets.  I've begun to piece together fictional stories of the lives of ancestors from the bits of "truth" (ie. primary documents).

Let me share with you my Great-Grandmother.






What could be so scandalous about this handsome woman you ask? Gertrude Robinson grew up in a typical rural Ontario farming family until I discovered in fact it may not have been so typical. Another researcher who turned out to be a cousin of mine in some capacity (cousin's removed...I'll explain that to you later when you are bored and want to know) - she pointed me to a birth record for Gertrude when I told her she had the incorrect parents for Gertrude.  Birth record? What birth record...I hadn't found Gertrude's birth record yet.  My cousin's tree contained the birth record - I clicked on it and saw the secret.  Her parents were not Sabina Petty and Peter Robinson as we had all been told, not Sabina and Peter as listed on her marriage license, not Sabina and Peter at all. Secret number one. Gertrude was the illegitamte daughter of Mary Ann Robinson and one Robert Milroy.


This was a well kept secret. Sabina and Peter raised Gertrude as their own, with Mary Ann as her "sister" and she officially told her children (who told their children, who told me...) that Sabina and Peter were her parents.  Her mother (Mary Ann) died young, 43 - unmarried and of heart disease. The story whirling in my mind is that of a socially shunned woman who died of a a lonely heart. Mr. Milroy - my actual Great-Great-Grandfather, came from a notable local family, later married, had legitimate recognized children but he too died a bit young - only 57. Heart disease as well.




Gertrude may not have known of her own first secret but surely she did know about the upcoming secret...in part 2. Stay tuned.

Friday 25 September 2015

To blink or not to blink

As you might expect "Don't Blink" is a cheesy name for a possibly equally cheesy horror movie. IMBD information right here!

It is also apparently something you will read in a university bathroom stall:

Don't Blink




Is it a warning? A suggestion? One of the reasons I think people write on stall walls is to get a reaction.  This scrawl is howling to have other things written in response to it...such as "why" or "because the boogie man is waiting for you".  Maybe someone was just feeling festive about the upcoming Halloween season.  On that note here is an interesting story I came across today about a "murder house" in Los Angeles, CA.  Enjoy!